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The Long Goodbye

by Patti Davis
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Overview

In The Long Goodbye, Patti Davis describes losing her father to Alzheimer’s disease, saying goodbye in stages, helpless against the onslaught of a disease that steals what is most precious—a person’s memory.  “Alzheimer’s,” she writes, “snips away at the threads, a slow unraveling, a steady retreat; as a witness all you can do is watch, cry, and whisper a soft stream of goodbyes.”

She writes of needing to be reunited at forty-two with her mother, of regaining what they had spent decades demolishing. A truce was necessary to bring together a splintered family, a few weeks before her father released his letter telling the country and the world of his illness.  The author delves into her memories to touch her father again, to hear his voice, to keep alive the years she had with him.

Moving and honest, an illuminating portrait of grief, of a great man, a disease, and a woman and her father.

About the Author, Patti Davis

Patti Davis is the author of five books, including The Way I See It and Angels Don’t Die. Her articles have appeared in many magazines and newspapers, among them Time, Newsweek, Harper’s Bazaar, Town & Country, Vanity Fair, The Washington Post, and the Los Angeles Times.

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Numerous books have been written about former president Ronald Reagan, but none have been more moving or poignant than this memoir by his daughter Patti Davis. Her account of the family's struggles with the realities of Reagan's Alzheimer's disease is raw and personal yet, as one reviewer noted, never "sappy, pitiful, or strident." A powerful statement about a charismatic man and a family's response to a devastating progressive illness.

Publishers Weekly

Ronald Reagan's youngest daughter, Davis is best known as a peace activist who forcefully disagreed with her father's policies. But this graceful memoir demonstrates that she is also a gifted writer. The focus of the journal-style book is her father's descent into Alzheimer's disease, but Davis deftly weaves family history and childhood memories into the surprisingly vibrant fabric of her story. The most startling aspect of this effort is its universality. Readers whose fathers have never held an elected office higher than president of their high school class will still be able to relate to these musings from a daughter who remembers her dad best for their ordinary moments together: swimming, riding horses or chatting about the flight paths of birds. Even though Davis calls Alzheimer's a "haunting presence in these pages," her message of love, loyalty and forgiveness manages to overshadow this "relentless pirate" of a disease. She recalls Reagan's peaceful acceptance of news that his beloved horse, Nancy D, had died: "His first response to death was to remember the beauty of the life that had passed. The memory comes when I find myself wondering, Where are you?" Davis's thoughtful and honest reflections make her father come to life again and should foster remembrances for readers as well. 2 photos. Agent, Don Epstein at Greater Talent Management. (Nov. 16) Forecast: The book's timing-after the flood of Reagan books that immediately followed his death; right before the holiday season-is excellent, which should result in robust sales. 100,000-copy first printing. Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.

Library Journal

In 1983, President Ronald Reagan declared November National Alzheimer's Disease Awareness Month. Now in a sad twist of fate, his daughter recalls his diagnosis and battle with the disease, an ordeal her mother, Nancy Reagan, called "the long goodbye." Davis's elegiac memoir consists of her private thoughts, memories of her father and her childhood, and her sorrow at the temporary estrangement that arose between her and her parents. Her narrative of Reagan's death, the moment the family hoped might be accompanied by some long-lost clarity of mind, is moving and rings true: "My father looks straight at my mother, holds onto the sight of her face for a moment or two, and then gently closes his eyes and stops breathing. My mother whispers, `That's the greatest gift you could have given me.' " Despite the author's annoying tendency toward self-absorption, the text flows easily, and the emotions recalled are so universal that many will find comfort in Davis's depiction of an all-consuming grief. Expect demand in public libraries of all sizes.-Cleo Pappas, Zitek Medical Lib., La Grange Memorial Hosp., IL Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.

Book Details

Published
September 27, 2005
Publisher
Plume Books
Pages
224
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9780452286870

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