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25 Months: A Memoir

by Linda Mck. Stewart, Linda McK Stewart
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Overview

Jack Stewart was a longtime editor at the New York Times. Linda was the U.S. representative of a French publishing consortium. Theirs was a marriage graced with good luck, a union from which each drew strength and joy in equal measure. In his early seventies, Jack opted for retirement but continued to work as a freelance editor and literary agent. The passing years were enriched by travel, strong family ties, and the delight of friendships.

Illness descended abruptly one October afternoon. Jack, awaking confused and disoriented from a nap, was rushed to the hospital. There the diagnosis was both swift and horrifying: Alzheimer's disease. It was a pronouncement that instantly overwhelmed all other considerations. Against her husband's loss of self-awareness, Linda quickly found she had no preparation, no defense. As his memory vanished, the essence of who he was vanished as well. 25 Months documents the struggle of a husband and wife to navigate the treacherous terrain of illness.

Alzheimer's is being diagnosed with ever-growing frequency. It is a disease of unknown origin, one that for now has no cure. The illness relentlessly and incrementally shreds personality and intellect. Yet every case is distinct, eliciting unique responses from both patient and caregiver. In those responses can be found the core of our character. The author describes the pain as well as the unexpected flashes of joy that came with caring for her failing husband. She describes as well the frustration of coping with a health care system that, despite benign intentions, seems woefully inadequate to meet the needs of Alzheimer's patients.

Synopsis

"Linda Stewart has written a warm and strong life story that conveys to every reader the terrible trials and extraordinary joy that attend the caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's."
- Howard Dean, M.D., former governor of Vermont

Jack Stewart was a longtime editor at the New York Times. Linda was the U.S. representative of a French publishing consortium. Theirs was a marriage graced with good luck, a union from which each drew strength and joy in equal measure. In his early seventies, Jack opted for retirement but continued to work as a freelance editor and literary agent. The passing years were enriched by travel, strong family ties, and the delight of friendships.

Illness descended abruptly one October afternoon. Jack, awaking confused and disoriented from a nap, was rushed to the hospital. There the diagnosis was both swift and horrifying: Alzheimer's disease. It was a pronouncement that instantly overwhelmed all other considerations. Against her husband's loss of self-awareness, Linda quickly found she had no preparation, no defense. As his memory vanished, the essence of who he was vanished as well. 25 Months documents the struggle of a husband and wife to navigate the treacherous terrain of illness.

Alzheimer's is being diagnosed with ever-growing frequency. It is a disease of unknown origin, one that for now has no cure. The illness relentlessly and incrementally shreds personality and intellect. Yet every case is distinct, eliciting unique responses from both patient and caregiver. In those responses can be found the core of our character. The author describes the pain as well as the unexpected flashes of joy that came with caring forher failing husband. She describes as well the frustration of coping with a health care system that, despite benign intentions, seems woefully inadequate to meet the needs of Alzheimer's patients.

Publishers Weekly

Stewart's second husband, Jack, worked for 34 years as a New York Times editor, launched a respected African news journal and pleasantly retired into a late career as a part-time literary agent. One autumn afternoon, with barely any warning, he began to exhibit undeniable symptoms of Alzheimer's, which changed everything for him and his wife. Stewart's straightforward, deeply felt memoir of the ensuing 25 months couldn't have been an easy story to tell, much less write and rewrite into this solid and often poignant book, but it's a strong narrative testimonial to her husband and his last months. Stewart leaves no doubt of her affection for Jack; her characterization of him nears hagiography. Yet this was a second marriage for both, and there's scant information as to why the first ones failed. Stewart also has considerable experience as a freelance travel writer and draws on that expertise in the book's heart, when her husband's memory has become irrevocably fragmented. For example, some random comment of Jack's connects with Stewart's memories of their travels to the Olduvai Gorge in Tanzania to visit Louis and Mary Leakey. This mixing of Jack's present-day deterioration with Stewart's precise memories begins to promise something more, but the book soon returns to the conventional, month-by-month story of Jack's worsening condition, and the sad, simple story of a solid marriage coming to an end. (Oct.) Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.

About the Author, Linda Mck. Stewart

Linda McK. Stewart

Linda McK. Stewart is a travel writer whose work has appeared in major metropolitan newspapers and magazines in the U.S., Canada, and abroad. She currently resides in New Jersey.

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Publishers Weekly

Stewart's second husband, Jack, worked for 34 years as a New York Times editor, launched a respected African news journal and pleasantly retired into a late career as a part-time literary agent. One autumn afternoon, with barely any warning, he began to exhibit undeniable symptoms of Alzheimer's, which changed everything for him and his wife. Stewart's straightforward, deeply felt memoir of the ensuing 25 months couldn't have been an easy story to tell, much less write and rewrite into this solid and often poignant book, but it's a strong narrative testimonial to her husband and his last months. Stewart leaves no doubt of her affection for Jack; her characterization of him nears hagiography. Yet this was a second marriage for both, and there's scant information as to why the first ones failed. Stewart also has considerable experience as a freelance travel writer and draws on that expertise in the book's heart, when her husband's memory has become irrevocably fragmented. For example, some random comment of Jack's connects with Stewart's memories of their travels to the Olduvai Gorge in Tanzania to visit Louis and Mary Leakey. This mixing of Jack's present-day deterioration with Stewart's precise memories begins to promise something more, but the book soon returns to the conventional, month-by-month story of Jack's worsening condition, and the sad, simple story of a solid marriage coming to an end. (Oct.) Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.

Library Journal

Jack Stewart, a retired New York Times editor, woke from a nap confused and disoriented. His wife, Linda, called EMS, thinking that he'd had a stroke when in fact he was showing signs of sudden-onset Alzheimer's disease; two years later, he was dead. In this book, Linda-who knew little about memory disorders and how to cope with their disturbing changes-traces Jack's deterioration. Filled with lengthy accounts of their literary careers, travels, marriage, family lives, childhoods, and friendships, it does little to capture the couple's struggle. The author offers few details about her own caregiving experiences and not much information about the nature of Jack's illness and how it was treated. Not until the end does Linda share her feelings about her struggles to maintain a normal life with her husband throughout the course of his illness and the terrible toll it took on both of them. This is, however, one of the few Alzheimer's memoirs written by a wife (see also Lela Knox Shanks's Your Name Is Hughes Hannibal Shanks); recommended for comprehensive aging/Alzheimer's collections.-Karen McNally Bensing, Benjamin Rose Lib., Cleveland Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.

Kirkus Reviews

Affecting debut memoir by a woman whose husband was stricken with sudden-onset Alzheimer's. When Stewart, a travel writer, woke her 78-year-old husband Jack from an afternoon nap and found him disoriented, unfocused, and incoherent, her first thought was that he had had a stroke. She rushed him to a hospital, expecting that with speedy treatment all would be well and the former head of the New York Times book-publishing division would soon resume his active, happy retirement. The next day she received the news that Jack had Alzheimer's, a fatal, degenerative condition that usually develops slowly but can come on in a single episode. How her strong, enthusiastic, bright, and articulate husband changed, and how she dealt with this transformation over the remaining 25 months of his life, are her subjects here. At first, Stewart searched the recent past for overlooked clues, episodes signaling that all was not good in Jack's brain. She recalled a bicycle accident he once had riding to work, which could have put him at greater risk for the disease, but she eventually realized that there were no answers and it was more important to deal with the present situation. Her recollections of what Jack once was are vivid, but her life revolves around caring for her husband as he is now. With grim humor and frankness, Stewart describes their encounters with physicians, her struggle to care for Jack herself, the measures she took to keep him active and engaged, and her disturbing inspection tour of an Alzheimer's care facility when home care no longer seemed possible. Fortunately, the arrival of Clarence, an invaluable home health aide, made all the difference, and she was able to keep her husband athome until the end. Most of her memories of their life together are joyous, however, and while this work documents Jack's terrible mental and physical disintegration, it also celebrates his life, their marriage, and their love. A painful pleasure to read.

Book Details

Published
July 1, 2004
Publisher
Other Press, LLC
Pages
288
Format
Hardcover
ISBN
9781590511305

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