Overview
Dr. Mary Sharp shares her grief, anger, depression, and now acceptance of her son's autism. This memoir offers parents of autistic children:
• A sense that someone else knows what you’re going through
• Help in dealing with the inevitable emotional and spiritual struggles
• Insights into pitfalls to avoid and issues to address
Synopsis
Lost and Found. Nic is a handsome boy who only wants to wear his Batman pj’s and cowboy boots––preferably at the same time. He’s trying to learn, to catch up, but with Nic everything comes more slowly. You see, Nic has autism. Mary is Nic’s mom. A family practice doctor from Michigan, she's spent the past twelve years vacillating between denial, depression, rage, and despair. And now, acceptance. Mary has come to see her son as a true gift from God. But it hasn’t been easy. With a tender strength, her memoir offers: · A sense that someone else knows what you’re going through · Help in dealing with the inevitable emotional and spiritual struggles · Insights into pitfalls to avoid and issues to address Whether or not you have children with autism or other special needs, An Unexpected Joy will speak to your heart. It is a story of realistic hope and emergence––the pain of feeling lost and the joy of being found.
Library Journal
Personal narratives about autistic spectrum disorders (ASD) can be tremendous resources for parents, educators, and therapists if they document successes and failures. In The Gift of Autism, Sharp, a family physician, writes about her autistic son, Nic, now 12. Like Kelly Harland in A Will of His Own, Sharp discusses ASD's effect on her as a parent rather than on her child. While sharing some valuable observations about issues like the failure of others to understand one's situation and the difficulty of obtaining services, she leaves out age benchmarks in anecdotes of Nic's behavior, making it difficult to gauge either the severity of his condition or the status of his progress. And in describing a tantrum, for instance. she explains how horrible she felt but not how she calmed Nic down-information the reader really needs. In The Boy Who Loved Windows, Stacey, a writer and college instructor, recounts the intense therapies undertaken by her son, Walker, now six, when he showed signs of severe sensory integration issues before one and possible autism at a very early age. Providing constant benchmarks and vivid descriptions of Walker's progress, Stacey talks about the family stress caused by a child with special needs, sibling issues, dealing with public early-intervention services, and therapies. Of note is a description of meetings with Stanley Greenspan, a noted child psychiatrist, and the implementation of his "floor time" method of therapy, one now greatly in use with ASD children. The far stronger of the two books, Stacey's is recommended for all public libraries and for academic libraries with education and social work collections. Sharp's is recommended only for libraries with comprehensive autism collections.-Corey Seeman, Univ. of Toledo Libs., OH Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.