Death

Children's Literature

This book defines many aspects and terms involved with death, grief, and loss, and how these things may affect teens. Death is explained as a normal part of the life cycle. Ceremonies such as funerals are discussed as a way to say good-bye to the deceased. Death and dying in different cultures are explained. Survivors have many confusing feelings including guilt, anger, resentment, or even relief. The ways in which people react to death are described. The grieving process is detailed as consisting of three phases: avoidance, confrontation, and accommodation. Healthy grieving is defined and ideas for dealing with grief are provided. Moving beyond grief and ways to return to a normal life are discussed as well. Even unhelpful grieving and depression are included in the book. Tips on helping a friend grieve and being an active listener are given. The book includes a useful index and glossary. Internet sites, hot lines, addresses, and further reading sources are listed. Quotes from actual teens are included in all six chapters. This book is an excellent resource for helping middle school students deal with death. This would be a good reference for guidance counselors to have as part of their collection. 2001, LifeMatters/Capstone Press,
— Maureen Boyle