Fatherhood, Marriage - Biography, Parenting - General & Miscellaneous
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Overview
Imagine yourself, if you will, faced with a daily routine that begins with feeding four children, a Great Dane, six cats, a horse or two, and a guinea pig - all before your first cup of coffee. Not a problem, you say? Well, imagine caring for all of the above and then some, while tending to the garden, the grocery shopping, the carpooling, the laundry, and an ironing board with an attitude problem. This is real life; not the latest from the sociologists, but firsthand from the poor sap who's been there, done that, and trashed the dryer. Leith tells his tale with wry humor and sparkling wit, maintaining that "those who have become convinced, like me, that the future of world peace, the brotherhood of man, and the survival of the family are all bound up in the performance of household tasks by those whose previous areas of expertise were the club and the pub, need to know how to be a Houseworm and survive." Leith's stint as a househusband is a hilarious, grueling, and ultimately rewarding odyssey through the sacred places of the other sex - all of which make perfect sense with a little perspective - and Ironing John is the almost true, sometimes serious, but always seriously funny story of how he survived. Just.Editorials
Publishers Weekly -
A British actor more often at liberty than onstage and a failed restaurateur, and married to a highly successful writer, Leith decided to let his wife win the bread while he became a househusband, what he refers to as a Houseworm. He began the job with few illusions about the huge amount of work involved but quickly learned he had badly underestimated how busy he was going to be, because his wife (the Househead) had been able to do all manner of tasks simultaneously. He also learned that, just as male groups often shut out females, the converse is equally true: he was definitely cold-shouldered by the moms in his child's play group. And he had to endure jibes from other males when he reacted coldly to their badinage and was asked if it was the wrong time of the month for him. But even cooking for a family partly carnivorous, partly vegetarian didn't faze him, and he developed a feeling of kinship for housewives. One minor objection: a glossary of British terms would have been helpful for those without access to the OED. (Feb.)Library Journal
What happens when an "out-of-work actor, father of a toddler, married to an equally out-of-work and extremely pregnant journalist" living in a cottage in Surrey (England) becomes a househusband while his family grows in size and his wife goes on to become a successful biographer? The story Leith tells is pure diversion. It will neither lower the deficit nor influence the United Nations, but it will improve the disposition. Leith records in a cheerful prose the absurdities and exasperations that are as familiar as orange juice and cereal for breakfast to anyone who has kept house. Because he maintains the light touch throughout, he manages to raise smiles where others attempting the same thing might raise frowns. A few references to things British might not be familiar to American readers, but that's no cause for concern. Enjoy!-A.J. Anderson, GSLIS, Simmons Coll., BostonBook Details
Published
December 31, 1996
Publisher
Grove Press / Atlantic Monthly Press
Pages
224
Format
Hardcover
ISBN
9780871136152