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Life Al Dente

by Gina Cascone
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Overview

With the irreverence, gutsy spirit, and warmhearted hilarity that made Pagan Babies a classic, here is the Italian-American experience served up by the author who has been crowned the Patron Saint of Humor.

Before the Sopranos, there were the Cascones....Life al Dente, the new memoir from the author of Pagan Babies, brings the same wit and wonder to the telling of Gina Cascone's Italian-American girlhood...well, boyhood actually. In an Italian family, few things are a greater handicap than being born female, but Gina's Dad generously decided to overlook this shortcoming and raise Gina as a boy -- the son he always wanted. As lawyer to numerous "alleged" mobsters, Dad had some colorful clients who would regularly gather around the basement pool table to talk business, drink, and be hustled by junior high Gina. There was no way Gina was going to turn into one of the big hair girls of Italian-American stereotype, but her journey would have all the bumps that come with that cherished immigrant ambition of moving from steerage to the suburbs in three generations. That sense of dislocation came early for Gina as her family moved from the kind of neighborhood where old men play bocce and the pet frogs are named Nunzio to one where Barbies and frozen food prevail. And though Gina's brains got her into the top high school, she quickly made the lonely discovery that she was the only one there whose name ended in a vowel.

In our overly pasteurized and homogenized world, there's a real hunger to find and celebrate our connection to old world roots and traditions. Life al Dente abounds in hilarious stories, but also rewards readers with a genuine and poignant contemplation of cultural identity.

Synopsis

With the irreverence, gutsy spirit, and warmhearted hilarity that made Pagan Babies a classic, here is the Italian-American experience served up by the author who has been crowned the Patron Saint of Humor.

Before the Sopranos, there were the Cascones....Life al Dente, the new memoir from the author of Pagan Babies, brings the same wit and wonder to the telling of Gina Cascone's Italian-American girlhood...well, boyhood actually. In an Italian family, few things are a greater handicap than being born female, but Gina's Dad generously decided to overlook this shortcoming and raise Gina as a boy -- the son he always wanted. As lawyer to numerous "alleged" mobsters, Dad had some colorful clients who would regularly gather around the basement pool table to talk business, drink, and be hustled by junior high Gina. There was no way Gina was going to turn into one of the big hair girls of Italian-American stereotype, but her journey would have all the bumps that come with that cherished immigrant ambition of moving from steerage to the suburbs in three generations. That sense of dislocation came early for Gina as her family moved from the kind of neighborhood where old men play bocce and the pet frogs are named Nunzio to one where Barbies and frozen food prevail. And though Gina's brains got her into the top high school, she quickly made the lonely discovery that she was the only one there whose name ended in a vowel.

In our overly pasteurized and homogenized world, there's a real hunger to find and celebrate our connection to old world roots and traditions. Life al Dente abounds in hilarious stories, but also rewards readers with a genuine and poignant contemplation of cultural identity.

Publishers Weekly

Cascone's contribution to the ever-burgeoning category of Italian-American memoirs is rife with classic images of massive family dinners and old spinsters who put evil spells (mal'occhio) on deserving family members. Yet for all its predictability, the account still manages to unpack the ethnic experience, as Cascone, who grew up in what readers can assume are the 1960s and '70s (there are no dates mentioned) in New Jersey, takes readers from her early memories of learning to say "vaffanculo" when she's angry to dating a "WASPy, preppie" kid who-gasp!-cuts his spaghetti when they're out to dinner. Cascone's style mixes her tough, "don't mess with me" personality with gruff humor, and her retelling of loony family fiascoes-her uncle's attempt to shoot eels to eat for Christmas Eve dinner; her father's finger getting stuck in the steering wheel of a Jaguar he's test-driving; and Cascone's own victories "hustling" the neighborhood boys over pool games in the basement-are comical and even sweet. The work covers Cascone's childhood and early college years (she recounted her Catholic school experiences in Pagan Babies) and deftly portrays the author's transition from being proud of her ancestry to ashamed of it (and the nose it gave her) and back again. Fairly chronological, the book is jarring only at the end, when Cascone abruptly changes gears to describe visiting Italy with her children and non-Italian husband after her parents have died. Spotty on dates and specifics-e.g., readers never learn where, exactly, the Cascones live, and Cascone doesn't give her parents and sisters' names-these reminiscences are simple yet heartwarming. (July 22) Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.

About the Author, Gina Cascone

Gina Cascone grew up in central New Jersey and is the author of Pagan Babies, Mother's Little Helper, and co-author of twenty-six books for children. Gina and her husband raised their two children in New Jersey and now live in Manhattan.

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Publishers Weekly

Cascone's contribution to the ever-burgeoning category of Italian-American memoirs is rife with classic images of massive family dinners and old spinsters who put evil spells (mal'occhio) on deserving family members. Yet for all its predictability, the account still manages to unpack the ethnic experience, as Cascone, who grew up in what readers can assume are the 1960s and '70s (there are no dates mentioned) in New Jersey, takes readers from her early memories of learning to say "vaffanculo" when she's angry to dating a "WASPy, preppie" kid who-gasp!-cuts his spaghetti when they're out to dinner. Cascone's style mixes her tough, "don't mess with me" personality with gruff humor, and her retelling of loony family fiascoes-her uncle's attempt to shoot eels to eat for Christmas Eve dinner; her father's finger getting stuck in the steering wheel of a Jaguar he's test-driving; and Cascone's own victories "hustling" the neighborhood boys over pool games in the basement-are comical and even sweet. The work covers Cascone's childhood and early college years (she recounted her Catholic school experiences in Pagan Babies) and deftly portrays the author's transition from being proud of her ancestry to ashamed of it (and the nose it gave her) and back again. Fairly chronological, the book is jarring only at the end, when Cascone abruptly changes gears to describe visiting Italy with her children and non-Italian husband after her parents have died. Spotty on dates and specifics-e.g., readers never learn where, exactly, the Cascones live, and Cascone doesn't give her parents and sisters' names-these reminiscences are simple yet heartwarming. (July 22) Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.

Kirkus Reviews

Italian-American Cascone (Mother’s Little Helper, 1986, etc.) pays affectionate tribute to her heritage as she recalls growing up among relatives determined to live life con brio. In chapters that chronicle the various highlights of her youth, the author begins by recalling how her father adjusted to her being a girl. Though this successful lawyer had expected his firstborn to be a son, he soon decided that even a daughter should not grow up to be one of those "silly ladies." He taught Cascone to stand up for herself, fight back when attacked, and never to back down. When the boys no longer allowed her to join their baseball games, her father taught her pool. Soon, to his delight, she was not only beating the local adolescent males but her father’s friends too. When a neighbor complained that Gina was playing pool for money, her mother initially forbid her to "hustle," but upon learning that she was actually beating the men encouraged her to "clean them out." Cascone recalls her reluctant move from their friendly city neighborhood to a big, new house in the less welcoming suburbs. Daddy sent her to a WASP prep school; her classmates ignored her until they saw her family at a school play and rumors began to circulate that they belonged to the Mafia. Cascone, deciding she might as well be a mob princess, played the role to the hilt. She recalls other memorable episodes: the Christmas her father resolved to have eels for dinner and stored them, alive, in the bathtub; their sentimental visit to Italy, where every meal seemed a celebration; her first encounter with the WASP Prince Charming she eventually married, though never sure whether it was her or the food that kept him coming back. Arare and refreshing tribute to a happy and wonderfully exuberant family.

Book Details

Published
August 1, 2009
Publisher
Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group
Pages
208
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9781439183762

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