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Reading, Writing, and Leaving Home: Life on the Page

by Lynn Freed
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Overview

Equal parts revelation and inspiration, these eleven essays combine a memoir of an exotic life, reflections on the art and craft of writing, and a brilliant examination of the always complex relationship between fiction and life. An account of translating a difficult mother into fiction, "Taming the Gorgon," becomes a poignant and hilarious meditation on the intricate knot binding mothers and daughters. The story of a scandal created by publication, "Sex with the Servants," becomes an inquiry into the porous boundary between private truth and public betrayal.

Whether examining the difference between a story told and a story written, or describing the trials and rigors of teaching writing to pay the rent, Freed surprises, instructs, and entertains. Learned, opinionated, and wickedly funny, Freed tears off all fictional disguises and exposes the human being behind the artist. For writers, readers, or anyone engaged in literature, this is essential reading.

Synopsis

Equal parts revelation and inspiration, these eleven essays combine a memoir of an exotic life, reflections on the art and craft of writing, and a brilliant examination of the always complex relationship between fiction and life. An account of translating a difficult mother into fiction, "Taming the Gorgon," becomes a poignant and hilarious meditation on the intricate knot binding mothers and daughters. The story of a scandal created by publication, "Sex with the Servants," becomes an inquiry into the porous boundary between private truth and public betrayal.

Whether examining the difference between a story told and a story written, or describing the trials and rigors of teaching writing to pay the rent, Freed surprises, instructs, and entertains. Learned, opinionated, and wickedly funny, Freed tears off all fictional disguises and exposes the human being behind the artist. For writers, readers, or anyone engaged in literature, this is essential reading.

The New York Times Book Review - Holly Brubach

Reading books about writing is, in my experience, like reading books about sex: I'd rather be doing it. The telescoping of all life to a single activity, the ruminations on technique, the author's private epiphanies tend to make me restless. And often bored, since the caliber of most writing about writing is, oddly enough, rather low. Lynn Freed's Reading, Writing, and Leaving Home is the welcome exception—a wry, lively series of essays…on the parallel worlds of fiction and life, and the merciless task of shuttling between them. As in The Mirror, the finest of her novels, and The Curse of the Appropriate Man, a highly acclaimed recent story collection, this memoir of her formation as a writer is characterized by such virtuosity and rigor that the reader is tempted time and again to linger, admiring the view, retracing the shape of a sentence.

About the Author, Lynn Freed

LYNN FREED is the recipient of the inaugural Katherine Anne Porter Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters. She is the author of five highly praised novels and a short story collection, The Curse of the Appropriate Man. She lives in Sonoma, California.

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Editorials

Holly Brubach

Reading books about writing is, in my experience, like reading books about sex: I'd rather be doing it. The telescoping of all life to a single activity, the ruminations on technique, the author's private epiphanies tend to make me restless. And often bored, since the caliber of most writing about writing is, oddly enough, rather low. Lynn Freed's Reading, Writing, and Leaving Home is the welcome exceptionβ€”a wry, lively series of essays…on the parallel worlds of fiction and life, and the merciless task of shuttling between them. As in The Mirror, the finest of her novels, and The Curse of the Appropriate Man, a highly acclaimed recent story collection, this memoir of her formation as a writer is characterized by such virtuosity and rigor that the reader is tempted time and again to linger, admiring the view, retracing the shape of a sentence.
β€”The New York Times Book Review

Jonathan Yardley

For Freed, the most important experience has been leaving home, "the conundrum of alienation and belonging," "place and displacement." It is, obviously a subject of immense pertinence and interest in today's world, and in both fiction and nonfiction Freed has explored it with acuity and sensitivity. She also, it should be mentioned (and not merely in passing), writes with acuity and honesty about herself and her family; the recollections of her pleasingly eccentric mother and father are among the many attractions of this book. But mainly it is about writing, and it is one of the best books on that complex, elusive subject to come my way in a long time.
β€” The Washington Post

Publishers Weekly

Freed, author of five novels and, most recently, the story collection The Curse of the Appropriate Man, offers insights into her writing and her life in 11 clean, incisive essays that mix the personal with the instructional without going too deeply into either. How autobiography shapes fiction particularly interests her: in "Sex with the Servants," Freed describes how her novel Home Ground caused a scandal in her native South Africa (at the few book-related events that weren't cancelled, all anyone wanted to know was if she'd really touched her garden boy's penis). Her family, who also appeared in print, were not nearly as outraged, and for would-be writers, Freed offers several firm pronouncements ("Writers themselves are natural murderers"; "The real writer... is a moral reprobate"), which suggest that to worry about others' feelings cheapens one's art. This apologia for the way writers skewer those around them shares space with a careful consideration of her own work's themes-alienation, family, home, travel, performance-episodic but interesting glimpses into Freed's life (a larger-than-life mother, a wild family, a troubled marriage, a difficult gig teaching writing). Freed's honesty is always tempered by what feels like cool reserve, but this nevertheless is an instructive, enlightening book. 10 b&w photos. (Sept.) Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.

Library Journal

Like a polished diamond, Freed's exploration of her writing life throws color in many directions. These 11 essays give the reader a look at her emotional calisthenics as she writes autobiographical fiction about the human condition, drawing on her family background and childhood in South Africa. It also examines the impact of autobiographical work on a writer's family and friends. The entire book is subtly infused with Freed's relationship with her father, who often jokes that she didn't give him much of a fictional funeral. The chapter "Sex with the Servants" explores the controversy behind Freed's novel, Home Ground (1986), which details an incident between a young white girl and a black garden boy. An essay on men and snoring illustrates the role of writers as storytellers, while other pieces emphasize the writing teacher as editor. Freed also quotes other authors explaining why they do or don't augment their writing with pinches of true experiences. Recommended for larger public and academic libraries.-Joyce Sparrow, Juvenile Welfare Board of Pinellas Cty., FL Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.

Kirkus Reviews

Nostalgic, reflective essays on the writing life by the South African novelist Freed (House of Women, 2002, etc). Her favorite writers are V.S. Naipaul, Marguerite Duras, and Nancy Mitford, from whose work she quotes often in establishing the autobiographical cord to a novelist's craft. In 11 essays, Freed traces her trajectory from a 1960s childhood in Durban, South Africa, to her reinvention as a much-married expatriate novelist living in California. Freed begins with her reading lists as a child (Enid Blyton and the plays of J.M. Barrie) in an affluent household that until the mid-1970s, she notes, knew no television. The author dwells on the contrasting personalities of her parents, both actors. Freed's flamboyant, assertive Jewish mother was an especially strong presence; "the love affair she conducted with trouble" obsessed her daughter for 30 years. In the essay "Honorary Son," she explains that because her two older sisters were beautiful and being groomed for marriage, and her four "shadow" brothers had died in miscarriage, plain Freed was allowed to discover her true nature from her parents' beneficent neglect, and she gained confidence through defiance and self-assertion. "My sense of male entitlement has carried easily into every sphere of my life," she writes. She explores the autobiographical elements at length in her novels, especially the first, Home Ground, with its explosive opening paragraph detailing a white child's "pulling on the penis of the garden boy." (28) The book was subsequently banned in apartheid South Africa and beyond. Two essential elements in the development of the writer: years of practice and ruthlessness. Her own sense of ruthlessness took her awayfrom her homeland, as an exchange student in Far Rockaway, New York, and later as a teacher trying to impart to her writing students how to sustain a "focus" she took many years to find in her own life. Instructive, well-poised lessons from the trenches.

Book Details

Published
September 1, 2005
Publisher
Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
Pages
256
Format
Hardcover
ISBN
9780151011322

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