Harville Hendrix
"This book reflects a deep understanding of the anatomy of affairs and how to survive them. Judah is a good writer, detailed and clear. Clinicians will find much to assist them in working with couples, and sophisticated readers will find excellent guidance in repairing their relationship."
Diane Sollee
"This wonderful book provides hope—the most important ingredient for recovery after infidelity. The hope rests on five essential disciplines: practical, step-by-step guidelines that help couples navigate the broken terrain and rebuild trust. I highly recommend it."
Ken Blackwell
"Dr. Judah's experience and training reveal the need for high character to inform our marriages when infidelity breaches have occurred. This book can and will help those who desire to reconcile with their spouse and be restored to their family."
Donald M. Joy
"Stephen M. Judah could have become a distinguished research scholar and settled down in the academy as a teacher. Instead, he writes as a lieutenant wrestling in the frontlines of marriages coming unglued. His persistent, careful observation of human experience and his dedication to establish a model of triage for the wounded have given him visible wisdom and an authority unlike anyone I know who writes on healing for broken relationships. Look no further: this is the premier treatment of 'the affair,' and all of us will find ways to incorporate the wisdom the author offers."
Library Journal
Tackling the ever-pervasive reality of marital infidelity, psychologist Judah (executive director, Columbus Marriage Coalition) presents a comprehensive discussion of why affairs take place and how couples can restructure their marriages afterward. The author, who has himself been married for more than 35 years, examines how the stage of infidelity is set in childhood, how to overcome infidelity safely, and how to move relationships toward wholeness. While he encourages disclosure (in most cases) and reconciliation rather than divorce, he acknowledges how difficult and grief-ridden that process can be. Judah provides quite a few biblical examples, but his sound advice stands on its own. Clear, well researched, and well presented, this book is highly recommended for all public libraries. Copyright 2006 Reed Business Information.
