Join Books.org — it's free

Teens - Biography, Anthologies, Gay & Lesbian Studies, Teens - Hot Issues, Gay & Lesbian Biographies
The Shared Heart by Adam Mastoon — book cover

The Shared Heart

by Adam Mastoon
Available on Bookshop Write a review

Books.org participates in affiliate programs including Bookshop.org and the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program. We may earn a commission from qualifying purchases made through links on this page, at no additional cost to you.

Log in to track your reading progress.

Overview

Athletes, painters, class presidents, and performing artists, the people in Adam Mastoon's compelling portraits recount experiences that are as diverse as their backgrounds. One man recounts his religious family's struggle to accept his gay identity. Another tells of the challenge to reconcile her bisexuality with her Asian-American heritage. Others recall the solace of long afternoons in the library devouring books that assured them that they were not alone. Together these candid accounts of navigating adolescence express the fundamental need we all share for acceptance and freedom of expression.

About the Author, Adam Mastoon

Adam Mastoon is a photographer whose work has appeared in Esquire, Forbes, and The Village Voice. His photographs have been exhibited nationally and published internationally.

Reviews

There are no reviews yet. Log in to write one.

Editorials

From Barnes & Noble

The Barnes & Noble Review
Adam Mastoon's elegant, empathetic photographs have been exhibited nationally and appeared in such publications as Esquire, Spin and Forbes. And while every photographer's work will reveal something of his vision and sensibility in his subjects, Mastoon's work in THE SHARED HEART pulses with an immediacy that seems decidedly personal, intimate, and quietly urgent.

"Looking back, I cannot recall a single image or role model that mirrored my experience as a young gay man," he writes in his introduction to this groundbreaking collection of portraits of ethnically diverse lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered young people (ages sixteen to twenty-two). "The disturbing fact is that suicide is the leading cause of death" among gay youth, a fact seldom really heard in the schools and, especially, the homes of those most at risk.

Mastoon's eloquent reply to the isolation, the appalling indifference, ignorance, and homophobia suffered by gay youth would probably be unimpeachable even in a far less accomplished book, as one of only a handful of such documents to come to light. That THE SHARED HEART rises above all expectation to become a truly enjoyable, emotionally intense reading experience lends a special dignity and grace to these quietly courageous, utterly human portraits.

A labor of careful, honest listening and observation, and of masterfully composed black-and-white portrait photography rich in tonality and detail (and a magic quality that really captures a subject in a moment of naturalness andlight), THE SHARED HEART doesn't tryto sell us rainbows. The forty individual portraits here — by turns funny, disturbing, playfully goofy, tough, brash, tender, astonishing — are presented in brief first-person narratives by the young subjects themselves, without editorial comment. Holographic reproductions caption the photographs, lending more intimacy and insight into each subject.

When Matt was fourteen, he says, his father was initially uncomfortable about his son's homosexuality. But he surprised Matt one day by introducing him to some gay friends. "It was a great experience to meet adults who could be positive role models for me," he says. Kerry, sixteen, has been lucky in finding sympathetic adults at her school ("My gay/straight alliance advisor never has a bad hair day"). If some young people found themselves uncomfortably identifying with the worst negative stereotypes of gays pop culture has to offer, Will, twenty, saw "flitty" types on TV and loved them.

For Chi, who is now twenty, "being gay is equal parts pain and joy. When my pain is most present, I remind myself again and again to expand my capacity to love myself and be loved by others."

Michael, twenty-two, reveals that "when I was nine years old my father called me a faggot for the first time." Shaka, who is from Jamaica, was told he would have to leave home if he was gay. Edual was also forced to leave his home when his mother confronted him in the family car one day and learned the truth about his sexuality. "My life as I knew it ended in that white station wagon on that sunny day in Patterson, New Jersey."

Salva, too, imparts some harsh truths absorbed in her young life. "Whoever said 'growing up is hard to do' was definitely watering things down. I've never questioned the suicide statistics. I've been there." "I realized I could die anytime," Adam, nineteen, says, "but I could only live once." And from Alton, seventeen: "Before I came out, I wasn't sure I would be able to grow up." Although these young people almost uniformly caution their peers to be careful about coming out, a process which most acknowledge will probably be lifelong, William, age twenty-two, says, "If I do not define my oppression and fight it, I have an aching feeling my oppression will not only define me but, if it has its way, destroy me."

Defining their lives on their own terms is a constant theme among all of the young people presented here. So is freedom. Their faces and especially their smiles have the power to crush lies. This extraordinarily affirming work should be in every school library.

Adam Mastoon's elegant, empathetic photographs have been exhibited nationally and appeared in such publications as Esquire, Spin and Forbes. And while every photographer's work will reveal something of his vision and sensibility in his subjects, Mastoon's work in THE SHARED HEART pulses with an immediacy that seems decidedly personal, intimate, and quietly urgent.

"Looking back, I cannot recall a single image or role model that mirrored my experience as a young gay man," he writes in his introduction to this groundbreaking collection of portraits of ethnically diverse lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered young people (ages sixteen to twenty-two). "The disturbing fact is that suicide is the leading cause of death" among gay youth, a fact seldom really heard in the schools and, especially, the homes of those most at risk.

Mastoon's eloquent reply to the isolation, the appalling indifference, ignorance, and homophobia suffered by gay youth would probably be unimpeachable even in a far less accomplished book, as one of only a handful of such documents to come to light. That THE SHARED HEART rises above all expectation to become a truly enjoyable, emotionally intense reading experience lends a special dignity and grace to these quietly courageous, utterly human portraits.

A labor of careful, honest listening and observation, and of masterfully composed black-and-white portrait photography rich in tonality and detail (and a magic quality that really captures a subject in a moment of naturalness and light), THE SHARED HEART doesn't try to sell us rainbows. The forty individual portraits here — by turns funny, disturbing, playfully goofy, tough, brash, tender, astonishing — are presented in brief first-person narratives by the young subjects themselves, without editorial comment. Holographic reproductions caption the photographs, lending more intimacy and insight into each subject.

When Matt was fourteen, he says, his father was initially uncomfortable about his son's homosexuality. But he surprised Matt one day by introducing him to some gay friends. "It was a great experience to meet adults who could be positive role models for me," he says. Kerry, sixteen, has been lucky in finding sympathetic adults at her school ("My gay/straight alliance advisor never has a bad hair day"). If some young people found themselves uncomfortably identifying with the worst negative stereotypes of gays pop culture has to offer, Will, twenty, saw "flitty" types on TV and loved them.

For Chi, who is now twenty, "being gay is equal parts pain and joy. When my pain is most present, I remind myself again and again to expand my capacity to love myself and be loved by others."

Michael, twenty-two, reveals that "when I was nine years old my father called me a faggot for the first time." Shaka, who is from Jamaica, was told he would have to leave home if he was gay. Edual was also forced to leave his home when his mother confronted him in the family car one day and learned the truth about his sexuality. "My life as I knew it ended in that white station wagon on that sunny day in Patterson, New Jersey."

Salva, too, imparts some harsh truths absorbed in her young life. "Whoever said 'growing up is hard to do' was definitely watering things down. I've never questioned the suicide statistics. I've been there." "I realized I could die anytime," Adam, nineteen, says, "but I could only live once." And from Alton, seventeen: "Before I came out, I wasn't sure I would be able to grow up." Although these young people almost uniformly caution their peers to be careful about coming out, a process which most acknowledge will probably be lifelong, William, age twenty-two, says, "If I do not define my oppression and fight it, I have an aching feeling my oppression will not only define me but, if it has its way, destroy me."

Defining their lives on their own terms is a constant theme among all of the young people presented here. So is freedom. Their faces and especially their smiles have the power to crush lies. This extraordinarily affirming work should be in every school library.

Brian Rieselman is the author of two novels, Where Darkness Sleeps and Dream Girl

Emily Saliers

This book will save lives.

Children's Literature

Over 40 narratives by lesbian, gay and bisexual young people are compiled here in an effort to celebrate their lives and broadcast their messages to others. Those profiled give voice to their thoughts and feelings about family, friends, identity and culture. In 1995 the author began a project that resulted in the creation of a non-profit organization, a photographic exhibition and a multimedia school curriculum entitled The Shared Heart. The project represents a powerful effort to "heal homophobia." The photographs of people profiled here, as well as their intimate thoughts, will move readers gay and straight alike. The poignant text in this book promotes tolerance and diversity. In this time of uncertainty and divisiveness, "The Shared Heart" reminds us that we all share a common humanity. 2001 (orig. 1997), HarperTempest/HarperCollins, $15.89 and $6.95. Ages 12 up. Reviewer:Jeanne K. Pettenati

KLIATT

To see others living good, whole, and well-balanced lives in which they accept themselves and are accepted by others is one of the most therapeutic things a young person can encounter—particularly young people who are coming to terms with their sexual identities, their sexual selves. The Shared Heart tells, in their own words, the tales of young people around the country who have struggled and won acceptance, who have risen above and beyond self-doubt, self-hate, and prejudice. The book is beautifully made. Each chapter has a photograph of the essayist, a "handwritten" note from the young person and then a short (no more than two pages) story of that person's sexual identity journey. There are stories of struggle and stories of celebration. All are stories of hope. Some of the young people are pictured alone, some with friends, and others with family members. All the photographs are high quality and some are stunning. The stories are moving and will be immensely helpful to young people and even older people who are struggling to come out of the closet. This book helps to show how much healthier and whole people can be when they choose to stop hiding and accept themselves. There are some things we are given in life over which we have neither choice nor control, as we can see in this book. But there is a choice to be oneself or to hide and these young adults have made one of the most courageous choices anyone is called to make in this world—to come out; accept oneself as gay, lesbian, or bisexual; and be proud. The essays can be neatly summed up in Matt's words; now 22, when he was in school he felt hobbled by the closet: "I was screaming inside for someone to recognize who Iwas and to say that it was okay." This book will allow others of our students to stop screaming inside and start living their lives more fully as who they are. As Elton John says about this book in a quote printed inside the front cover, we get to know the essayists as people, not as statistics, and "They teach us to be true to who we are, no matter what." KLIATT Codes: SA—Recommended for senior high school students, advanced students, and adults. 1997, HarperCollins, HarperTempest, 180p. illus. bibliog., $6.95. Ages 16 to adult. Reviewer: Joseph R. DeMarco; Libn., St. Joseph's Prep. Sch., Philadelphia, PA , September 2001 (Vol. 35 No. 5)

VOYA

In the past several years, there has been a boom in the publishing of books for young people that deal with gay/lesbian/bisexual issues. Two of the newest installments are photographic documentaries about gay/lesbian/bisexual teens produced with the intention of helping other teens struggling with their identity. The Shared Heart is a beautifully photographed book that allows the reader to meet each individual (forty in all) and read, in the subject's own words, the joys and perils of coming out to family, friends, community, and self. Some of the stories are very positive, telling of inner strength and unexpected support from family and friends. Others tell of the abysmal loneliness and fear they have because it was not safe to tell others of their feelings. Those portrayed are all in their late teens and early twenties, and each subject is presented with a short personal essay, a handwritten note, and a photograph. Their words are very poignant, but what readers will be drawn to are the photographs. Reading of their hardships and looking into their eyes will help teens-those struggling with their sexuality and those struggling to understand sexuality-realize that there are no stereotypes, only real people. The purpose of Growing Up Gay is to concentrate on two young people, documenting their lives as "out" gay teens. One of the subjects is Jamie Nabozny, the young man who successfully sued the school district in Ashland, Wisconsin, for failing to protect him from the abuse of his classmates. The reader is shown many private moments, ranging from a GED graduation ceremony to a romantic scene on Lake Superior. Along with the photographs is a running commentary from the subjects, describing feelings or incidents that were occurring at the time the photographs were taken. While dealing with the same subject matter, these books manage to be very different in purpose. Growing Up Gay has a more focused, documentary, "a day in the life of" feel, while A Shared Heart examines a variety of situations in a wider forum. Because of the broader focus and the effective job it does breaking down stereotypes, the latter would be a better choice for those libraries trying to impact a wider audience. Editor's Note: The Shared Heart is the winner of ALA's Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Book Award for nonfiction.]. Photos. Further Reading. Note: This review was written and published to address two titles: Growing Up Gay: The Sorrows and Joys of Gay and Lesbian Adolescence, and The Shared Heart: Portraits and Stories Celebrating Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Young People. VOYA Codes: 5Q 2P S (Hard to imagine it being any better written, For the YA with a special interest in the subject, Senior High-defined as grades 10 to 12).

Children's Literature

As a young man struggling with his sexual identity, Mastoon found few peer role models. For young people today, regardless of their sexual preferences, this beautiful book will provide keen insights into the worlds of lesbian, gay, and bisexual young people. Short autobiographical essays of young lesbian, gay, and bisexual people are accompanied by stunning black and white portrait photographs of each writer. With simple honesty, each young person shares the unique story of his or own coming out and the consequences on family and interpersonal relationships. As the title suggests, these stories celebrate the lives of these young people, who not only share common struggles, but who also are brave enough to share their personal stories with other young people who might be at the beginnings of their own sexual identity journeys. This book will help make young people realize that they are not alone.

Library Journal

Handsome portraits of 40 gay, lesbian, and bisexual young people and their own one-page personal statements demonstrate the diversity and demystify the experiences of today's youth. It won the 1998 ALA GLBTF Nonfiction Award. (LJ 11/15/97)

School Library Journal

Gr 7 UpA remarkable collection of 40 narratives and photographs of gay, lesbian, and bisexual young adults. All in their late teens and early 20s, they tell in frank, open narratives what it is like to be bisexual and homosexual. They speak of the moments in their lives when they came to realize they were not heterosexual, how they struggled with their decision to come out, how their families and friends reacted, and how they have been treated by loved ones and strangers. These young people are activists, artists, athletes, class presidents, and performers. Some live in small towns and some in big cities. Some have the loving acceptance and support of their families and some are totally estranged. While no one story is the same, all have shared some experiences. For instance, they all have been victims of intolerance to some extent. They all speak of how coming out enabled them to become truly comfortable with themselves. Candid, black-and-white photographs of the subjects bring their words to life. Mastoon does a wonderful job of capturing the personalities of these young people. Beneath their photographs are brief statements written in their own handwriting. What is most admirable about these narrators is their courage to speak so openly. Their fearless, uninhibited celebration of themselves and their demand for dignity and respect are truly inspiring. Young adult readers, gay and straight, will find these passionate, life-affirming testimonies memorable and moving.Edward Sullivan, New York Public Library

Book Details

Published
May 1, 2001
Publisher
New York : HarperCollins, 2001.
Pages
192
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9780064473040

Similar books