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The Virgin of Bennington

by Kathleen Norris
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Overview

Shy and sheltered as a young woman, Kathleen Norris wasn't prepared for the sex, drugs, and bohemianism of Bennington College in the late 1960s—and when she moved to New York City after graduation, it was a case of out of the frying pan and into the fire. In this chronicle, Norris remembers the education she received, both formal and fortuitous; the influence of her mentor Betty Kray, who shunned the spotlight while serving as a guiding force in the poetry world of the late 20th century; her encounters with such figures as James Merrill, Jim Carroll, Denise Levertov, Stanley Kunitz, Patti Smith, and Erica Jong; and her eventual decision to leave Manhattan for the less-crowded landscape she described so memorably in Dakota. This account of the making of a young writer will resonate with anyone who has stumbled bravely into a bigger world and found the poetry that lurks on rooftops and in railroad apartments—and with anyone who has enjoyed the blessings of inspiring teachers and great friends.

Synopsis

The book her devoted readers have been waiting for. At last, New York Times betselling author Kathleen Norris's first continuous narrative . . .a story of sex, drugs, and poetry.

After spending her high school years in Hawaii, Kathleen Norris was woefully unprepared for Bennington College in the 1960s, with its culture of drugs, sex, and bohemianism. But it was also at Bennington that she discovered her great love of poetry, which carried her to New York City at a time when a new generation of poets was emerging and shaking up the establishment.

Working at the Academy of American Poets for her beloved mentor, Elizabeth Kray, and hanging out at clubs with Andy Warhol's crowd at night, Norris found herself immersed in an exciting and emotionally turbulent new world. Her memoir of that time - of her friendships and encounters with poets, including Jim Carroll, Denise Levertov, Gerard Malanga, Erica Jong, James Merrill, Stanley Kunitz, and James Wright - is an inspiring tribute to poetry and a stunning evocation of time and place. Her tenuous balancing act on the bridge between naïve experimentation and indirection and the more focused responsibilities of adulthood, makes for a dramatic and illuminating account of coming-of-age at a tumultuous moment in our history.

"Through three bestselling books published over the past six years, Kathleen Norris has captured [readers'] hearts and fed their souls." - Common Boundary

Newsday

As Norris shares the lessons she learned in her younger years...she offers valuable, practical advice on the art of writing.

About the Author, Kathleen Norris

Kathleen Norris is the author of two books of poetry, Falling Off (1971) and The Middle of the World (1981) and has received awards from the Guggenheim and Bush foundations. She lives in Lemmon, South Dakota, with her husband.

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The Barnes & Noble Review

Memoirists seem a self-centered, brazen gang: They find no subject as interesting as their private thoughts, all of which they deem worthy of publication. But Kathleen Norris is different. Her memoir, which follows the style of her award-winning spiritual meditations, is a marvel of modesty and delicate detail. In it, Norris describes her early career as a poet and arts administrator in New York City. She does not hide her own thoughts, but she manages to relay them in broader terms, focusing on poets' lives in general and her friends' lives in particular. It's a beguiling piece of writing, at once frank and secret.

Norris's story begins at Bennington, a small, artsy college that once opened the minds and legs of countless young co-eds. Norris describes her attempts to fit in, along with the ill-fated love affairs that swept her, after college, into a literary life in New York's Academy of American Poets. Throughout her memoir, Norris admits to her emotional peccadilloes but refuses to rake over them in reflective agony. When she records the erosion of her first romance—an affair with a married, older poet—she simply describes her boss Betty Kray's reaction: "'Your first love affair is over,' she commented...She said that affairs with older poets had been the bane of young women who worked at the Academy, and that my situation was far less disastrous than some." Like the precise and grounded Betty Kray, Norris eschews wallowing. She focuses on the work that her experiences helped to create: her own poems and those of others at the Academy.

So, instead of sweaty self-pity, Norris offers us subtle anecdotes about poets and poetry of 1970s Manhattan. She finds some small anecdote about every writer around: W. H. Auden, James Merrill, Elizabeth Bishop, and Denise Levertov, to name a few. She also shares with us bits of poetry, either spoken or written, and helps us to understand how they grew. Here's Norris's account of her friend Jim Carroll, author of The Basketball Diaries: "I was absorbed in writing cerebral verse about angels, and Jim sought inspiration in drug-induced hallucinatory dreams and nods. We both believed enough in what Jim has called 'the poem within' to let it save us. And it led us back to the real world."

Norris's The Virgin of Bennington also leads back to the real world. It's a memoir for people who don't like memoirs: full of the outside world, of poetry, and of people.(Jesse Gale)

Newsday

As Norris shares the lessons she learned in her younger years...she offers valuable, practical advice on the art of writing.

Rocky Mountain News

a must-read...

Publishers Weekly

In this absorbing coming-of-age memoir by the author of Dakota: A Spiritual Geography and Amazing Grace: A Vocabulary of Faith, Norris appeals to every reader's struggle to achieve adulthood, both personally and professionally. She tells of her own transformation via the New York art world of the 1960s and 1970s from a homesick first-year college student to a well-known poet and writer living in South Dakota with a strong sense of literary mission. Like many of her Bennington classmates, Norris moved after college to New York City, where she felt much like "Nick Carraway [adapting]... to the dazzling but dangerous world of the East Coast." Norris landed a job as an assistant to Elizabeth Kray at the Academy of American Poets the center of the poetry world which provided her "an opportunity to attend poetry readings, night after night, for close to five years." While in New York, Norris came into contact with an entire host of famous figures, from the decadent folks at Warhol's Factory to some of the most highly respected poets of the day, like Denise Levertov, Stanley Kunitz and James Wright. While gaining an education in urbanity and sophistication that might have made another soul more cynical and self-destructive, Norris managed to maintain a certain appealing innocence and optimism, evident in her receptivity to new experiences and new people, and her hesitancy to judge others. This inner strength leads her eventually to sever her dependency on Manhattan. Norris writes with warmth, frankness and amazing vividness about formative moments and events in her life, many of which readers especially those with artistic aspirations will be able to identify with and to learn from. (Apr.) Forecast: The strong sales of Norris's earlier books pave the way for this memoir, which should sell handsomely. Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information.

Library Journal

Fans of Norris will undoubtedly be attracted to this coming-of-age memoir that charts her personal and professional life from the tumultuous 1960s into the more staid 1970s. As a transplanted Midwesterner from the plains of South Dakota, Norris spends her academic years at Vermont's Bennington College, out of sync with her classmates. She samples drugs (mostly speed, with disastrous results) and enters into an affair with a married professor. These were typical activities for the time of which she writes, still the author herself maintains an innocence and vulnerability that follow her to New York, where she moves after graduation. She happens into a job at the Academy of American Poets (AAP), a new organization under the direction of Elizabeth Kray, whose tireless efforts brought new poets to prominence and made poetry accessible to the general public. Kray also served as a mentor and motivator for Norris's own efforts as a poet, which resulted in winning recognition and publication for her first book. Exposed to encounters with some of the most notable poets of that time Denise Levertov, Erica Jong, James Merrill, James Wright, Gerard Malanga Norris ultimately decides to return to her roots, forsaking the East Coast for the plains of the Midwest. Unlike her previous works, which are either more personal or spiritual, the greatest portion of this story deals with the work of Kray as director of the AAP. For those who hope for something revelatory concerning the author of The Cloister Walk, this book, read by Sandra Burr, will not provide much in the way of enlightenment. Recommended for larger public libraries. Gloria Maxwell, Penn Valley Community Coll., Kansas City, MO Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information.

Booknews

In this memoir, poet and essayist Norris describes the free-love atmosphere of Bennington College in the sixties where she spent four years as an undergraduate, her care as an undergraduate to avoid human contact for literature (quotes from which she weaves comfortably into her narrative), and her eventual life as a writer in New York City where she was friends or acquainted with the writers of the time, including Jim Carroll, Denise Levertov, Gerard Malanga, Erica Jong, James Merrill, James Wright and Stanley Kunitz. Annotation c. Book News, Inc., Portland, OR (booknews.com)

Kirkus Reviews

Poet and nonfiction author Norris (The Cloister Walk) focuses in this autobiography on her years at Bennington College in the mid-1960s and a subsequent period of maturation in New York City. Notorious for its atmosphere of sexual promiscuity, drugs, and bohemian liberalism, Bennington seemed a bad fit for a shy girl from Honolulu whose most cherished entertainments consisted of reading and singing in the church choir. Dubbed by her college mates "the Virgin of Bennington," Norris spent four years in self-imposed isolation, composing verse largely out of a need for "protective coloration" in a world that seemed to have little place for her. Poetry was a defense mechanism against the intrusion of coarse reality, claims Norris, who had her first sexual experience with another girl and later became the lover of a married professor. Moving to New York after graduation, she took a job at the Academy of American Poets, performing menial secretarial tasks but benefiting from the opportunity to attend poetry readings and meet stars of the literary demimonde. Persistently describing herself as too bashful to venture out to a Manhattan grocery store, in the same breath the author portrays all-night binges in the bars and poets' lofts she frequented, sometimes to the detriment of her daytime responsibilities. More interesting than her panorama of New York's unbridled bohemian lifestyle is Norris's tribute to mentor and friend Betty Kray, executive director of the AAP. Committed to helping struggling writers through grants and awards, Kray nourished many native talents while also promoting foreign celebrities. Convinced of Kray's decisive role in her own creative development,Norris mulls over their friendship and Betty's selfless devotion to the verbal art. There just isn't anything unusual enough about the author's experiences and perceptions to make this more than a near-stereotypical tale of a provincial American emerging from a sheltered, small-town environment to confront the dangers and temptations of a big metropolis.

Book Details

Published
April 1, 2002
Publisher
Penguin Group (USA) Incorporated
Pages
272
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9781573229135

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