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Gender Studies - Socialization, Men's Studies, Social Psychology, Developmental Psychology, Relationships - Interpersonal, Self-Improvement

Where Men Hide

by James B. Twitchell, Ken Ross
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Overview

"If you ask men if they spend any time hiding, they usually look at you as if you're nuts. 'What, me hide?' But if you ask women whether men hide, they immediately know what you mean." -- from Where Men Hide

Where Men Hide is a spirited tour of the dark and often dirty places men go to find comfort, camaraderie, relaxation, and escape. Ken Ross's striking photographs and James Twitchell's lively analysis trace the evolution of these virtual caves, and question why they are rapidly disappearing.

Ross documents both traditional and contemporary male haunts, such as bars, barbershops, lodges, pool halls, strip clubs, garages, deer camps, megachurches, the basement Barcalounger, and Twitchell examines their provenance, purpose, and appeal. He finds that for centuries men have met with each other in underground lairs and clubhouses to conduct business or, in the case of strip clubs and the modern rec room, to bond and indulge in shady entertainments. In these secret dens, certain rules are abandoned while others are obeyed. However, Twitchell sees this less as exclusionary behavior and more as the result of social anxiety: when women want to get together, they just do it; when men get together, it's a production.

Drawing on literary, historical, and pop cultural sources, Twitchell connects the places men hide with figures like Hemingway and Huck Finn, Frederick Jackson Turner's theory of the American frontier, and the mythological interpretations of Joseph Campbell and Robert Bly. Instead of blaming the disappearance of the man-cave solely on feminism, simple fair play, or the demands of Title IX, Twitchell believes this evaporation is due as well to the rise of solitary pursuits such as driving, watching television, and playing videogames.

By blending together anecdote, research, and keen observation, Ross and Twitchell bring this little-discussed and controversial phenomenon to light.

Columbia University Press

Synopsis

Where Men Hide is a spirited tour of the dark and often dirty places men go to find comfort, camaraderie, relaxation, and escape. Ken Ross's striking photographs and James B. Twitchell's lively analysis trace the evolution of these virtual caves, and question why they are rapidly disappearing. They find that for centuries men have met with each other in underground lairs and clubhouses to conduct business or to bond and indulge in shady entertainments. In these secret dens, certain rules are abandoned while others are obeyed. Twitchell connects the places men hide with figures like Hemingway and Huck Finn, Frederick Jackson Turner's theory of the American frontier, and the mythological interpretations of Joseph Campbell and Robert Bly. Documenting both traditional and contemporary male haunts, Twitchell and Ross examine the provenance, purpose, and appeal of this little-discussed and controversial phenomenon.

Publishers Weekly

The author of AdCULT USA and Lead Us into Temptation takes a vacation from consumer culture to explore male spaces, from the recliner to the boxing ring, with photographer Ross. An affable guide, Twitchell mourns the demise of the men-only barbershop, puzzles over the "dreariness" of male lairs and wanders into the cross-cultural history of deer hunting. His vivid personal accounts of, say, his fascination with Saddam Hussein's spider hole breathe life into what could have been a fusty set of cliches. Twitchell dissects Ross's photos of male insularity and advertisements reassuring men they can get away from it all. But in the end the book arrives at the obvious conclusion: men make their own spaces for good or ill, and these spaces are changing. He also falls into sweeping generalization ("Women go to convents to do good work. Men go to monasteries to get away from women"). Still, he is that rare thing in cultural studies, a raconteur, and his generalizations are sometimes thought provoking, as when he discusses why men-only groups are a selling point of megachurches. For men who like to think about manhood-but not too hard-and women who are wondering what the attraction is of that grimy garage, Twitchell makes an entertaining companion. (May) Copyright 2006 Reed Business Information.

About the Author, James B. Twitchell

James B. Twitchell is professor of English and advertising at the University of Florida and author of many books, including Adcult USA and Lead Us Into Temptation. He is also the author of 20 Ads That Shook the World, For Shame, and Branded Nation.

Ken Ross has been a fine art photographer and educator for over thirty years. His photography has been displayed in numerous exhibits and featured in the New York Times and Esquire magazine. He has been awarded a Geraldine R. Dodge Foundation Grant and a New Jersey Artist Fellowship for the photographs seen in Where Men Hide.

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Editorials

St. Petersburg Times

An enjoyable and provocative read.

β€” Margo Hammond

Seattle Weekly

Carefully composed to capture what might be called the aesthetic of male clutter.

β€” Mike Seely

menstuff.com

By blending anecdote, research and keen observation, the author and photographer bring this little-discussed and controversial phenomenon to light.

Forbes Life

What Joseph Campbell did for mythology, Twitchell and Ross have done for garages, strip clubs and other masculine hideouts.

β€” Finn-Olaf Jones

City Pages

A funny, warm account of men and their self-made retreats... Twitchell pays homage to men's caverns of yore.

β€” Jim Walsh

Boston Sunday Globe

Twitchell describes, informs, explains, analyzes, and enlightens... In Twitchell's book I can see myself and men I know.

β€” David Maloof

US Airways Magazine

Twitchell explores what it means to be male.

Brilliant Magazine

Arguing passionately for the continued importance of male bonding and of certain places where no girls are allowed.

The Midwest Book review

Any library strong in sociology... will find this an important acquisition.

Winterthur Portfolio

Reading these essays is like listening to a witty and broadly knowledgeable after-dinner speaker entertain and enlighten.

β€” Steven M. Gelber, Santa Clara University

The Midwest Book Review

Any library strong in sociology... will find this an important acquisition.

St. Petersburg Times

An enjoyable and provocative read.

Seattle Weekly

Carefully composed to capture what might be called the aesthetic of male clutter.

Forbes Life

What Joseph Campbell did for mythology, Twitchell and Ross have done for garages, strip clubs and other masculine hideouts.

City Pages

A funny, warm account of men and their self-made retreats... Twitchell pays homage to men's caverns of yore.

Boston Sunday Globe

Twitchell describes, informs, explains, analyzes, and enlightens... In Twitchell's book I can see myself and men I know.

Winterthur Portfolio

Reading these essays is like listening to a witty and broadly knowledgeable after-dinner speaker entertain and enlighten.

Publishers Weekly

The author of AdCULT USA and Lead Us into Temptation takes a vacation from consumer culture to explore male spaces, from the recliner to the boxing ring, with photographer Ross. An affable guide, Twitchell mourns the demise of the men-only barbershop, puzzles over the "dreariness" of male lairs and wanders into the cross-cultural history of deer hunting. His vivid personal accounts of, say, his fascination with Saddam Hussein's spider hole breathe life into what could have been a fusty set of cliches. Twitchell dissects Ross's photos of male insularity and advertisements reassuring men they can get away from it all. But in the end the book arrives at the obvious conclusion: men make their own spaces for good or ill, and these spaces are changing. He also falls into sweeping generalization ("Women go to convents to do good work. Men go to monasteries to get away from women"). Still, he is that rare thing in cultural studies, a raconteur, and his generalizations are sometimes thought provoking, as when he discusses why men-only groups are a selling point of megachurches. For men who like to think about manhood-but not too hard-and women who are wondering what the attraction is of that grimy garage, Twitchell makes an entertaining companion. (May) Copyright 2006 Reed Business Information.

Library Journal

Twitchell (English, Univ. of Florida; Branded Nation) turns his eye to the places to which men retreat with the intent of excluding women: deer camps, baseball dugouts, boxing rings, the garage, and other male spaces. Instead of analyzing the reasons men feel compelled to "hide," Twitchell rests content in surveying the topography of these homosocial spaces. Each hiding place receives its own chapter, with brief but engaging essays on the history and meaning of such refuges as the Masonic lodge and the strip club. Freelance photographer Ross's depictions of male space-shot without men in sight-bring a desolation to the topic that Twitchell acknowledges, along with the increasing obsolescence of such spaces owing, e.g., to the availability of the Internet to provide cyber male spaces. Academics will surely feel distress at Twitchell's retrograde constructions of gender (the book is full of categorical statements about the attributes and preferences of men and women) and preference for description over analysis, but general readers will find much to enjoy. The author closes by examining religious groups such as the Promise Keepers as new sites of masculine solidarity, though he holds back from pursuing the political ramifications of this development. Despite its academic publisher, this book is best suited for public libraries.-Whitney Strub, UCLA Copyright 2006 Reed Business Information.

Book Details

Published
February 1, 2008
Publisher
Columbia University Press
Pages
264
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9780231137355

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