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100 Simple Secrets of Great Relationships: What Scientists Have Learned and How You Can Use It

by David Niven
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Overview

What are the essential qualities of a great relationship? What do people in healthy and happy relationships do differently? Scientists and academics have spent entire careers investigating the nature of relationships, dating, and marriage, yet their findings are inaccessible to ordinary people, hidden in obscure journals read only by other academics. Now the bestselling author of the 100 Simple Secrets series has collected the most current and significant data from more than a thousand studies on relationships and spells out the key findings in plain English. The advice is not based on one person's unique experiences or opinions, but offers for the first time the research of noted scientists studying the lives and loves of average Americans. Each of the findings is accompanied by a true story that shows the results in action.

  • Love is hard to calculate: Researchers have proven that a partner's age, income, education, and religion are unrelated factors in the likelihood of relationship satisfaction.
  • Always trying to win can lead to a major loss: People who feel a sense of competition with their partner are 37 percent less likely to feel that their relationship is satisfying.
  • leave the past in the past: More than 40 percent of people report that jealousy over a previous relationship is a source of conflict in their current relationship.

Synopsis

What are the keys to a great relationship? The bestselling author of The 100 Simple Secrets of Successful People takes the most current and significant data from more than a thousand studies and spells out the key findings in plain English.

Columbus Dispatch

“How does one find happiness, that elusive emotion? Social scientist David Niven has helped unlock the mystery.”

About the Author, David Niven

David Niven, Ph.D., bestselling author of the 100 Simple Secrets series, is a psychologist and social scientist who teaches at Ohio State University.

David Niven, Ph.D., es el autor de los bestsellers internacionales Los 100 Secretos de la Gente Exitosa, y Los 100 Secretos de las Buenas Relaciones. Es psicólogo y científico social, y enseña en la Florida Atlantic University.

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From Barnes & Noble

Psychologists and sociologists spend careers researching how relationships work, but most of us just muddle through. In this welcome addition to his 100 Simple Secrets series, Dr. David Niven uses a science-savvy, interdisciplinary approach to help daters and couples solve pestiferous problems. This lively yet thoroughly informative guide blends recent scientific studies about relationships and real-life stories.

Columbus Dispatch

"How does one find happiness, that elusive emotion? Social scientist David Niven has helped unlock the mystery."

Columbus Dispatch

β€œHow does one find happiness, that elusive emotion? Social scientist David Niven has helped unlock the mystery.”

Library Journal

Like a good Irish sermon, each of these 100 secrets is meaningful, satisfying, and quickly delivered. A pattern soon emerges: psychologist Niven (The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People) relates a bit of conventional wisdom, e.g., "There's no need to hurry," then uses an anecdote to illustrate it, e.g., movie mogul Barry Diller and fashion designer Diane Von Furstenburg waited more than 25 years to get married. A nugget of scientific study then confirms the analysis: "Marrying later in life has no negative effect on satisfaction with the relationship, or with life." Motivated readers will scurry for the featured studies, mostly from dissertations or academic articles in professional journals, like the one above from L.P. Juang and R.K. Silbereisen's 2001 report in American Behavioral Scientist. Libraries might also consider Warren Berland's Out of the Box for Life, which devotes brief sections to discrete issues (e.g., fat and anger) that readers work through by thinking "out of the box." Copyright 2003 Cahners Business Information.

Book Details

Published
November 1, 2006
Publisher
HarperCollins Publishers
Pages
240
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9780061157905

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