Physical & Emotional Abuse, Family Abuse & Violence, True Crime - Family Violence

When Something Feels Wrong : A Survival Guide about Abuse, for Young People

Name: When Something Feels Wrong : A Survival Guide about Abuse, for Young People
Author: Deanna S. Pledge
ISBN: 9781575421155

by Deanna S. Pledge

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Overview

Nobody deserves to be abused. But all kinds of teens are abused every day. It doesn't matter who they are, where they live, or what they look like. It doesn't matter how they act, how much money their families have, what activities or groups they're involved with, or how well or poorly they do in school. All kinds of teens are victims of abuse -- physical, emotional, sexual, and neglect. Maybe this includes you or someone you know. The good news is, you can make it stop. You can learn what abuse is all about, get help, and put an end to the abuse if it's still going on. This book can give you the words you need to understand and talk about the abuse. It can answer many questions you have. It can help you get safe, tell others, and prepare for what happens next. It can start you on your healing journey. Throughout this book, quotes from real teens remind you that you're not alone. "Let It Out" exercises invite you to write your thoughts and feelings in a journal. "Remind Yourself" affirmations boost your self-confidence. Resources point you toward books, organizations, and Web sites that offer more information and support. Examples and personal stories profile other teens who have gotten out of abusive situations and found help. If they can do it, so can you.

Provides checklists, journaling ideas, and other positive ways of dealing with being physically, sexually, and/or emotionally abused, emphasizing the importance of talking about what has happened and getting help.

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KLIATT

Free Spirit is a credible and dependable source for this kind of nonfiction. Unfortunately, we need to have books like this in our libraries. The author is a psychologist who has many years of experience with abuse victims. Abuse can fall under several categories: emotional, physical, sexual and neglect. The author does an outstanding job of defining abuse and most importantly how to identify it and how to respond to it. She constantly reminds YAs to journal their thoughts and to declare positive affirmations that will bolster and improve their self-confidence. She not only tells readers how to get help but what to expect when they do get the courage to tell someone. There is also an important chapter on how to rediscover yourself and move on. This guidebook is extremely readable and a great resource. A list of resources, with toll-free numbers, Web sites, books, and organizations, is included. KLIATT Codes: JS*-Exceptional book, recommended for junior and senior high school students. 2003, Free Spirit, 214p. illus. bibliog. notes. index., Ages 12 to 18.
— Sherri F. Ginsberg

VOYA

A staggering number of children and teens are abused each year in America. This book sets out to help those who are suffering abuse come to terms with their situation, get help, and begin the healing process. Pledge begins by carefully and methodically defining physical, sexual, and emotional abuse and neglect. A chapter titled "What if... ?" provides answers to frequently asked questions of abused teens. The second part goes on to describe the process of telling others and how the legal system might become involved. Part Three focuses on recovery, healing, and self-esteem. Each chapter includes breakouts of quotes from abused teens, statistics and summaries of information presented, and "remind yourself" affirmations. At the end of each chapter, readers are given specific things to explore in a journal to help them face the abuse. Many resources are listed throughout the book. This book maintains a gentle, supportive tone that will benefit teens in need of help. It is not necessary to read the entire book to get to important information, making it a good choice for teens who need to browse through it in the library. Additionally, a student doing a report on child abuse would find the book an excellent resource. Index. Source Notes. Further Reading. VOYA Codes: 4Q 2P M J S (Better than most, marred only by occasional lapses; For the YA with a special interest in the subject; Middle School, defined as grades 6 to 8; Junior High, defined as grades 7 to 9; Senior High, defined as grades 10 to 12). 2003, Free Spirit, 224p,
— Blayne Tuttle Borden

School Library Journal

Gr 9 Up-Questions that teens have about various forms of abuse-physical, verbal, and emotional-are addressed in this sensitive, straightforward title. Distinct sections help readers identify abuse, take action, and discuss the healing process. Sidebars offer excerpts of individuals' stories and helpful suggestions. Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.