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Why I'm Like This: True Stories (P.S. Series)

by Cynthia Kaplan
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Overview

Cynthia Kaplan takes us on a hilarious and sometimes heartbreaking journey through her unique, uncensored world—her bungled romantic encounters and unsung theatrical experiences; her gadget-obsessed father, her pill-popping therapist, and her eccentric grandmothers; her fearless husband, whom she engages in an ongoing battle over which of them is the most popular person in their apartment; and, of course, her vengeful, power-hungry one-year-old son.

Kaplan's voice is a lot like the one in our heads—the one that most of us are only willing to listen to late at night . . . maybe while locked in a closet. What a relief it is that someone finally admits that she is afraid of nearly everything; that she is jealous even of people whose lives are on the verge of collapse; and that she has, at times, tried to pass for a gentile.

Synopsis

Cynthia Kaplan takes us on a hilarious and sometimes heartbreaking journey through her unique, uncensored world—her bungled romantic encounters and unsung theatrical experiences; her gadget-obsessed father, her pill-popping therapist, and her eccentric grandmothers; her fearless husband, whom she engages in an ongoing battle over which of them is the most popular person in their apartment; and, of course, her vengeful, power-hungry one-year-old son.

Kaplan's voice is a lot like the one in our heads—the one that most of us are only willing to listen to late at night . . . maybe while locked in a closet. What a relief it is that someone finally admits that she is afraid of nearly everything; that she is jealous even of people whose lives are on the verge of collapse; and that she has, at times, tried to pass for a gentile.

Laura Zigman

Cynthia Kaplan is very funny. These pieces are very,very funny.

About the Author, Cynthia Kaplan

Writer and actress Cynthia Kaplan's essays have been published in many newspapers, magazines, and anthologies, and she is the author of the collection Why I'm Like This. She has appeared in clubs, theaters, and on film, but never on Law & Order. She lives in New York City with her husband and children.

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It's a fairly unusual occurrence for a book to inspire us to skip through the halls of our offices, quoting lines to each other and collapsing in laughter. But this one did the trick. Cynthia Kaplan's collection of heartfelt and sidesplittingly funny autobiographical essays takes a razor-sharp look at the memories of her life: her eccentric grandparents, her adolescent growing pains, her early work experiences, her marriage, and the birth of her child. In so doing, this first-time author has managed a rare feat: to revisit those universally painful life events that once made us cringe or cry, and make us laugh instead.

Let's see, there's the time when a boy she liked "asked me to rub sun block onto his back…. Had I this moment to live again, I would have offered to apply the sun block later, in private, with my tongue." Pining for the boy, Cindy loved him "like a dog loves a bone." But she asks herself, "Why do they do that? There's no meat left on it. Is it wishful thinking? Is it the idea that meat was there once and maybe it will be there again one day, or is it just nostalgia? Oh, that meat was good, remember that meat? Nummy, nummy, nummy."

Why I'm like This is a lovingly rendered tribute to "the myriad facets that make all our lives the magical, crazy, infuriatingly wonderful mysteries they are," and Kaplan's refreshingly individualistic, indiosyncratic way of looking at -- and living in -- the world will delight readers of every ilk. (Summer 2002 Selection)

John Searles

"This is a charming collection of essays in the spirit of David Sedaris…"

Jerry Stahl

"Funny, sweet, weirdly life-affirming and painfully true…"

Debra Ginsberg

"Cynthia Kaplan’s gift is her ability to take on life’s absurdities and come out a winner."

Laura Zigman

"Cynthia Kaplan is very funny. These piece are very, very funny."

Booklist

"Kaplan consistently amuses while cutting surprisingly deep."

Paper Magazine

"WHY I’M LIKE THIS is a collection of personal essays that are as funny as they are poignant."

Detroit Free Press

"WHY I’M LIKE THIS is an impressive debut and Kaplan has a wonderfully natural comedic style."

New Orleans Times-Picayune

"When Kaplan is funny, she’s very funny…Well worth reading."

USA Today

"Knee-slapping hilarious…Fans of David Sedaris or Anne Lamott will appreciate (Kaplan’s) quirky way of looking at life’s intricacies."

New York Times Book Review

"Quick–witted, neatly written and unapologetically grandiose…in the spirit of Dorothy Parker…[Kaplan] renders weird and rowdy scenarios with style."

Time Out New York

"One of downtown’s coolest actors . . . you’ll laugh until you can’t breathe."

New Orleans Times-Picayune

“When Kaplan is funny, she’s very funny…Well worth reading.”

USA Today

“Knee-slapping hilarious…Fans of David Sedaris or Anne Lamott will appreciate (Kaplan’s) quirky way of looking at life’s intricacies.”

Detroit Free Press

“WHY I’M LIKE THIS is an impressive debut and Kaplan has a wonderfully natural comedic style.”

Booklist

“Kaplan consistently amuses while cutting surprisingly deep.”

Time Out New York

“One of downtown’s coolest actors . . . you’ll laugh until you can’t breathe.”

New York Times Book Review

“Quick-witted, neatly written and unapologetically grandiose…in the spirit of Dorothy Parker…[Kaplan] renders weird and rowdy scenarios with style.”

Paper Magazine

“WHY I’M LIKE THIS is a collection of personal essays that are as funny as they are poignant.”

Laura Zigman

Cynthia Kaplan is very funny. These pieces are very,very funny.

Detroit Free Press

Why I'm Like This is an impressive debut and Kaplan has a wonderfully natural comedic style.

Paper Magazine

Why I'm Like This is a collection of personal essays that are as funny as they are poignant.

New Orleans Times-Picayune

When Kaplan is funny,she's very funny...Well worth reading.

New York Times Book Review

Quick-witted,neatly written and unapologetically grandiose...in the spirit of Dorothy Parker...[Kaplan] renders weird and rowdy scenarios with style.

John Searles

This is a charming collection of essays in the spirit of David Sedaris...

Time Out New York

One of downtown's coolest actors . . . you'll laugh until you can't breathe.

Jerry Stahl

Funny,sweet,weirdly life-affirming and painfully true...

Kirkus Reviews

Debut collection of essays traversing everything from the mysteries of summer camp and the eccentricities of one’s parents to acting in independent films and the love one feels for a newborn. Freelance journalist Kaplan grew up in the WASPy Connecticut of the 1970s (“In my town there were so few Jews that unless you were dressed like the Hasidim, it just didn’t occur to people that you might be Jewish”). Like many a humorist, she observes high school from the edge of popularity, watching her girlfriends slow-dancing with jocks while she nurses multiple cases of unrequited love. After graduating from college, she settles in Manhattan and tries her hand at acting in commercials, indie films, and theater. (“I play at least one lesbian a year in one or another downtown theater.”) To support herself, she waits tables—usually running into her overeducated former classmates. Her fellow waiters teach her the lyrics to Sondheim songs, the choreography from every Broadway show from the past 50 years, and how to make a decent cappuccino. She finally abandons restaurant work for the world of the retail headhunter, which allows her the financial freedom to seriously pursue acting. The eccentrics of the world seem fond of Kaplan; she moseys through a community populated in part by a therapist who needs more help than her clients (the therapist tries to borrow money, credit cards, and prescription drugs from her patients), a gadget-loving father (he was one of the first drivers in the 1960s to own a mobile car phone), and a host of loser boyfriends (one even stood her up on her birthday). Not everything is glibly rendered; as Kaplan’s grandmother succumbs to Alzheimer’s, the author’s meditation on thesymbolic value of inanimate objects—in this case her grandmother’s leather pocketbook—is simple and heartfelt. A fresh voice with a bright future.

Book Details

Published
May 1, 2007
Publisher
HarperCollins Publishers
Pages
240
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9780061283963

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